Some men think they are super studs when it comes to sex by the number of thrusts they manage to achieve during sex, forgetting that sex is much more than just humping the woman and using their organ as a piston.
There are few things that make a woman cry and scream when you are giving it to them and it is an art that has to be perfected. There are a few things that EVERY woman wishes men did more of in bed and here are the top 5.
1. Giving her an orgasm before intercourse start
The ability to give your woman an orgasm even before penetrating her has been described as the biggest thing women wish men did more of them in bed. Most men don’t do this, but instead, they clumsily plow straight to the actual sex as fast as they possibly can.
This means that foreplay usually consists of a few minutes of the obligatory kissing, followed by a few minutes of obligatory breast stimulation, followed by a few minutes of obligatory ‘fingering’ and the ultimate penetration. Hey bro, no woman wants this. If you can spend a little more time in making sure she reaches that peak even before you jump in, she would be your anytime you want her.
If you can give her an orgasm before you penetrate her, then it’s guaranteed to be good sex in her book, even if you don’t last as long as you’d like. And on top of this, giving her an orgasm will make her more responsive and much more likely to have another orgasm during intercourse.
2. Paying attention to non-obvious erogenous zones on her body
For some men, the breast, clitoris and the G-Spot are the only points on a woman’s body worthy of attention but women don’t want you to only pay attention to these spots – they also want you to pay attention to their whole body.
Did you know that there are 16 other hidden erogenous zones on her body which can give her pleasure, and which can actually make her more sensitive to vaginal stimulation? Most men don’t know about these, but if you’re one of the rare men who does, then she’ll be screaming your name in pleasure.
Seek them out and make sure to go to work on them and watch your woman become meaty in your hands:
Tips: Try the back of her neck, her ears, the curve within her legs, her toes, the fingers, the navel, the valley between her breasts, her lips, her forehead.
3. Lasting long in bed
Women don’t mind if you don’t last that long in bed, as long as you’re good with your fingers. It is also okay for a man to only last a few minutes in bed but not before you must have given her the pre-sex orgasm.
But women absolutely hate it when a man shoots off too soon because it prevents them from having orgasms. How would you feel if a woman got you close to an orgasm, then all of a sudden stopped, rolled over, and went to sleep?
You can only imagine the frustration she gets when you splash the moment you get inside her.
You need to know how to last 30 minutes in bed at the minimum. If you really want to drive women wild, then you should learn how to last over an hour in bed. And of course, you can have a quickie once in a while, but most of the time, women will need a minimum of 30 minutes of intercourse to have multiple orgasms.
4. Teasing her until she begs for it
Most men, especially in Nigeria, do not spend time teasing their women in bed. They just plow forward directly to their goal of intercourse with no finesse, just doing the minimum necessary to get to penetration.
What women want is for you to build her up to a sexual action with teasing until she’s practically begging you for it. That is the right time to give her the gratification.
For example, with oral sex, most men just dive right in. What would turn her on much more is if you kiss up her inner thighs, and breathe warmly on her vagina. Then, so lightly she can barely feel it, run your tongue over her clitoris.
Do this until she’s pleading with you to give her more and then give it to her real hot. She’ll enjoy it about a hundred times more.
5. More oral sex please
This leads into the next things women want more of in bed, which is oral sex. We are yet to see women who hate oral sex even if your woman tells you so. So it is really sad that men would not want to give their women oral sex but they expect women to give them blow jobs all the time.
If you go down on your woman, chances are that she would always be ready to give you her best, even outside the bedroom.
If you know how to do it right, giving her oral sex is the fastest and easiest way to give her orgasms. Plus, once you make her finish through oral sex, she’ll be much more responsive during intercourse and much more likely to go down on you as well.